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Sexy Seminar about YD Rules (Free eye candy inside, all must read)

Discussion in 'The Rules & How to Sign Up' started by Ruddy Kitty, Jun 9, 2010.

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  1. Ruddy Kitty

    Ruddy Kitty A Cure For Optimism Staff Member Admin

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    Welcome to the Yaoi Dreams Rules Seminar!


    Take your seat, open your textbooks and be sure to flirt with your professor Ruddy Kitty and for extra credit.

    Before participating in our ever-growing man-loving community, please take a moment to go over this section and review your rights and responsibilities as a YD member. Here you can find everything you need to know to help maintain a happy and sexually active part of our community. And don't forget, if you ever have any questions, don't be afraid to contact any of our staff members! (Beware, Ruddy Kitty bites! But don't be alarmed, just continue stripping off for gym class after this announcement.)​


    In order for you to know who to come to for a good spanking, here are the ranking staff members and their profile links. Remember that you can find Administrators in the color RED and Moderators are colored BLUE.


    Yaoi's Consort
    email: HisokaAyase@gmail.com
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/colleen.allan.7
    Discord: Hisoka Ayase#2804

    Please contact a staff member to report any abuse of the rules. I'll give you candy.​


    First and foremost, to be able to participate in our community, please remember that you must be at least 18 years of age and know what yaoi is (Delicious man sex, rawr can't get enough... If you don't understand, Google works.). You MUST be logged in to view any content on the forum. Also, it is very important to remember that all roleplays here are works of FICTION ONLY.

    With that said, here is a list of rules that should be read and understood by every member.


    1. When starting a new roleplay, put your topic in the correct section. If you are unsure, please contact an Administrator or Moderator for help. If you suspect you have posted it in the wrong section do not be afraid to contact an Administrator or Moderator! We are more than happy to help.

    2. Do not post in a roleplay without consent unless the tag of 'OPEN' is clear on the thread title or first post. If you would like to ask about joining an RP you should PM the member who created the thread for further information.

    3. The Journals and the members-only section is considered private. The information you learn about members should not be carelessly shared with others unless consent is given. Any malicious 'rumors' or divulging of information will be viewed as harassment, which includes stalking and doxing. We are a community here and gossip in a negative manner is not desirable.

    4. If there is cause for concern over a reply/thread/comment/private message, please contact a Moderator or Administrator and it will be dealt with as soon as possible.

    5. Harassing other members for any reason is unacceptable. This includes in public threads or over PM. Punishments will be decided at the discretion of staff. If the harassment is considered abusive more so than unpleasant, a higher warning level may apply.

    6. All members are obligated to follow the instructions of staff members. If you do not comply, a higher level of warning may be issued and possibly a ban. If you believe the judgment is unfair feel free to address another administrator. Ruddy Kitty and Cythe will review the issue.

    7. YD administrators reserve the right to ban any member without notice IF considerable harm or damage is being caused to one or more members or the board. This ban can be temporary or permanent depending upon the offense. (Don't worry, this isn't used very often.)

    8. For the site but mostly for the chat AND for Discord: No stalking/doxing/OOC abuse of any kind to other members. Please be respectful, kind and courteous; this means no racist or sexist comments, no bullying or harassment outside of RP. please keep all images in a spoiler tag as well, animated images go in media room, NSFW for heavy stuff, and heavy RP in the RP room, for illicit or graphic descriptions of "gross imagery" (such as but not limited to blood, vomit, etc.) please keep it in the nurse's office.​


    If for any reason a member becomes out of hand, these are the steps that will ensue:​

    Caution: A caution is a politely informative suggestion to cease an action. These actions are usually relatively harmless such as posting in an RP thread to make conversation or posting a thread in the wrong section continually. These may be retracted as judged on a case-by-case basis. Three cautions will earn you a Warning.

    -Warning: This is a clear instruction to stop doing something either more severe or continued with ignorance of the Cautions provided, so after the third caution is a warning. An example of a direct Warning without Caution is when a member purposefully flames another for any reason. (Flaming is treating another with disrespect in an offensive manner). Issuing a Warning before any three Cautions is pretty rare. One warning is all that is given before a Suspension.

    -Suspension: This is a period of time that the offending member is restricted from attending the Yaoidreams.com forums in order to cool down, think about their actions and get some perspective. The suspension period depends upon the offense and should always be discussed with an administrator. It can be as little as one day and as long as three months. When a member comes back from suspension, they are on a probationary period.

    -Probation: Staff monitors the user to ensure that they are not making the same mistakes or causing issues. If they commit the same offense, this may call for an immediate re-suspension depending on the severity of the offense (such as flaming) for a longer period of time. If the offense is different, one warning only is provided to probationary members. If a member continually shows no effort to make amends while on probation and continues to commit offenses, they will be Banned.

    -Banned: When a member is restricted from attending Yaoidreams.com for more than 3 months. This may be from 6 months to permanent.

    -Spanking: Only provided when a member has done a good job, whether it be a whip or freehand is your decision.



    Note: the guide below is no longer needed.

    You can register through the link on the top right without emailing anyone. Please note however that it may take up to 24 hours for approval by an admin. Make sure to double check your email address as invalid ones will not be approved. If there are any questions regarding registration please contact Admin@yaoidreams.com.

    Compose an e-mail with the following details:

    Subject: YD Registration

    Desired Username: (put in the username you want to use when you log in to YD)

    E-mail Address: (the e-mail addresses where YD will be sending updates and notices)
    Send the e-mail you composed to any of our Administrators and Moderators for approval. You may choose to only send it to one or send it to all the e-mail addresses listed here.


    Wait for at least 24 hours for your account to be approved. You will be receiving an e-mail to confirm that your account has been successfully registered and you will also receive a temporary password. You will need this to login to the forum for the 1st time.

    And that's it! You may login to Yaoidreams.com and enjoy roleplaying. Remember that you can change your temporary password by going to the Account Settings section of your Profile.

    Any further questions? We'd love to hear from you!



    (Beware, copious amounts of Ruddy Kitty may cause members to squee in a high pitched tone. If this occurs, consult your seme.)

    Class dismissed, for now, my beautiful guests.​
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