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I know that feeling. I get that a lot from people all the time, cause I talk a lot too. There are much nicer ways to say that, or talk about it as a thing to work on. Her calling you a Yapper, is not that way.

I'm not just told I talk a lot. I'm also told I have a very loud voice. I think it's the undiagnosed ADHD. The think they mean it like in a teasing way like "oh aren't you cute" but they don't understand how self conscious it makes someone. I can't organize my thoughts and I'm literally just trying to get my point across.

(Ironically the part that makes me a "yapper" also makes me a pretty good writer, though. Because I gotta get all the details out.)

What a rude thing for the instructor to say.

@Kinothefox Aww. That's a bummer. I definitely don't think people realize that it kinda hurts. There's definitely better ways to go about it. She was being playful about it. I was talking to an instructor that was shadowing her, and i apologized for it, and she said "Don't worry, I know you're a yapper," but just, it was the other instructors first day, i was trying to be friendly O^O

@thom I definitely feel that. I haven't been officially diagnosed with ADHD, but my therapist who has ADHD said that she sees a lot of symptoms in me and strongly believes that I do have it, so I kind of think of myself as unofficially diagnosed, yknow? And a lot of that is definitely having a hard time organizing my thoughts.

@thom I tend to forget things as words are coming out of my thought, so i backtrack to make sure i didn't forget anything.